Patty Marlene Mattingly-Durbin, Gary Harmon
Patty Marlene Mattingly–Durbin
Patty Marlene Mattingly–Durbin, 83, of Kokomo, passed away on Friday, May 15, 2026, at the Bloom of Kokomo. She was born on October 27, 1942, in Clinton County, the daughter of Harvey W. and Olive M. (Williams) McDaniel. On October 4, 1963, in Indianapolis, she married David K. Mattingly who preceded her in death on December 30, 2011. On June 22, 2019, in Indianapolis, she married Larry Clifford Durbin, and he survives.
Patty graduated from Prairie High School in 1960. She was a licensed beautician for many years, Patty enjoyed spending her time sewing and quilting. Patty was a loving mother and grandmother and loved to spend quality time with her family. She was a member of Grace Baptist Church.
Along with her husband Larry, Patty is survived by her children Julie (Jeremy) Walker, David K. (Ruth) Mattingly II, and John Mattingly; grandchildren Alex Morgan and Kayla Morgan; siblings Glenda (David) Cubel, Mary (Tim Overdorf) Hayes, Betty (Morris) Butcher, Harvey McDaniel, Dale (Jenny) McDaniel, and Lisa (Jeff) Jones; and several nieces and nephews.
Patty was preceded in death by her parents, first husband, sister Nancy (Charlie) Law, and sister-in-law Diana McDaniel.
A funeral service celebrating Patty’s life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, May 19, 2026, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, 1315 W. Lincoln Road, Kokomo, IN 46902, with Pastor Harvey McDaniel officiating. Burial will follow in Floral Park Cemetery in Indianapolis. Friends are invited to visit with the family from 9:30 a.m. until the time of service on Tuesday, at the funeral home. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.
Gary Harmon
Gary Harmon, 84, of Kempton, Indiana, returned to the loving arms of our Lord on April 23, 2026, at Aperion Care in Kokomo.
He was born on August 26, 1941, in Frankfort, Indiana. Gary graduated from Wanatah High School and went on to serve his country honorably in the United States Army.
On a beautiful day in 1968, Gary married the love of his life Carol Green. Together, they built a life rooted in faith, love, and unwavering commitment. Carol survives him, carrying forward the many cherished memories they created together.
Gary dedicated much of his professional life to his work as an Assistant Vice President for National Homes in Atlanta, Georgia, and later in mortgage banking. He was known for his strong work ethic, integrity, and the relationships he built along the way.
Above all else, Gary was a man of deep and abiding faith. He was a devoted follower of Jesus, and his love for the Lord guided the way he lived his life and treated others. He had a gift for connecting with people, whether in conversation, encouragement, or simply offering a listening ear. He truly loved to sit and talk, making everyone feel seen and valued.
Gary was a proud and loving husband, father, and grandfather. His family was his greatest joy, and he was always present with support, wisdom, and kindness. He will be remembered for his friendly nature, his steady faith, and the warmth he brought into every room.
He also found great enjoyment in cheering on the Chicago Bears, sharing that passion with those around him.
Gary leaves behind a legacy of faith, love, and meaningful connections that will continue to live on through all who knew him.
Those left to carry on his legacy of love are his wife Carol Harmon; daughter Marci Mock; and grandson David Garrett Harmon.
Taylor & Cowan Funeral Home is honored to serve the Harmon family in their time of need.